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I am a 46-year-old average looking Joe, and I know the secret behind getting anyone’s phone number. After years of meeting women at bars, clubs, lounges, and roller skating rinks, I searched for a new avenue to meet people. I fell in and out of relationships, because the women I was meeting were not right for me. Now, I know the secret and I want to share it with you.

 I live, shop, and use public transportation in Manhattan, and I was always seeing beautiful women around me, the type I wanted to find in the bars and lounges but couldn’t. These women were just doing their normal activities, walking around, shopping, or riding the subway. I confess I always had a weakness for women in the subway. They seem so glamorous, often dressed smartly and with coiffed hair.

 My first encounters with women went something like this: I look at them, then they noticed and looked back. We looked back and forth, and there was both an expectation and a tension that formed between us. I would try to approach women, but at that point, the unspoken tension was too high to feel comfortable, and I would fail. This happened frequently, until I learned to minimize the staring and start a conversation.

 My fame as a pick-up artist started like anything else, with practice. I engaged a woman in conversation using a calm, affectionate tone to develop an emotional bond with her and make her feel at ease. I practiced this over and over with casual conversation, gaining confidence in myself and getting better at keeping a woman’s attention. But while talking to a woman was great, I was looking for a little something more. I needed a way to get a woman’s phone number or email address. Before I asked, however, I knew I needed to do some research.

 I wanted to be sure that women were open to being picked up in public, so I paid attention on the train. I soon found that women who were interested in me sat next to me or across from me, even in an empty subway car. They looked at me more often than those who were clearly not interested. Sometimes, I would even see them get jealous as they realized that another woman was looking at me also. I took this to mean that these women wanted me to approach them and start a conversation, and more importantly, that they wanted to be picked up in the subway.

 I did this little study numerous times, always with the same results. Interested women sat near me and looked at me, while disinterested women sat across the car and kept to themselves. I knew I could go ahead and ask for phone numbers or email addresses, so I did.

 I soon realized that women were everywhere! I started conversations with women in stores and supermarkets. Once, a woman and I were both in line at a computer repair shop. After chatting with her for a few minutes, she gave me her work phone number. Another time, I met a great lady in the cereal aisle at the supermarket. She was unavailable, having just gotten married, but I knew I was on the right track.

 Over the years, I have realized that there are six basic types of responses I receive when approaching women.

 1. Little feedback or no response. These women are not interested.

 2. Open, positive, and communicative. These women are usually not in a relationship and looking to socialize.

 3. Open, positive, and communicate, but unwilling to give out their phone number. These women are confident and enjoy socializing, but are not available for a relationship.

 4. Open, positive, and willing to give their phone number, but in a relationship. These women are generally confused and unhappy in their current relationship, so they are unable to commit. This relationship usually goes nowhere.

 5. Open and positive, but just passing through. These tourists are looking for a good time and are open to brief sexual encounters.

 6. Open and positive, but just looking for friends. These women want social networking but not romance.

 I learned to distinguish these women and just go with the flow. If one woman was not interested, I would move on to another, making sure I never pushed myself on anyone. One of the most important things when meeting someone is to keep yourself emotionally detached so that you do not get discouraged with wrong phone numbers, answering machines, and unanswered emails. There will be people who never respond back, but there are so many more who will. Learning a few simple rules about interacting with people will let you socialize with 20 women in one day or just 1, depending on how you feel.

Along with the supermarket and subway, I realized there are plenty of other places to meet someone that does not involve loud music and dressing up nice for a club. I meet women at the gym, for instance, wearing ratty clothes and smelling like sweat. I have been known to chat up a woman between workouts and get her number before leaving, however. On my eight block walk home, there are plenty of women waiting to be approached, even though I am still sweaty and wearing rags. Sometimes I get a number just walking home.

 These tips and ideas work for both men and women looking to pick someone up. As living proof, read this story. During one conversation as I left the subway with a woman, she invited me to a Buddhist meeting, which I attended. I got involved in the Buddhist activities and met my future wife there. I still keep in touch with the woman, and while she was not available for a relationship at the time, it was through her that I met the woman of my dreams.

 I know some incredible secrets to meeting people and making contacts, and I want to share those tips with you. I have written a report of examples, things to avoid, and suggested conversation topics that I have found to be highly successful. The report is a PDF file and can be downloaded for just $7.95.